ICU is with me always. It’s the first thing I see in the morning, in my mind’s eye. It’s the last thing I see as I fall asleep. It is in many ways, the backdrop to my life now.
I had to go to the hospital yesterday for yet another blood test. Afterwards, I made my way to the cafe nearby where I had something to eat. I realised I didn’t have the time and date for my face-to-face appointment with the haematology consultant. I made my way to that department to speak to one of the receptionists to find out when it was.
Upon leaving there, I saw the chap who works at the hospital and who helped direct my mum to where she needed to go the other day for a medical procedure. I mentioned that I was now ready to return to the Intensive Care Unit (ICU). People who have been looked after there are able to go back and thank those who helped keep them alive, when they feel able to.
The next thing I knew he was introducing me to a man who worked in the ICU and within 5 minutes of that, I was walking up to where I had spent 10 days of my life last September. I was fine until I reached the corridor and then I just burst into tears. Across from my bed was a door I never thought I would ever walk through. There always seemed to be a reason why it wasn’t going to be that day and the next and so on. Behind it lay my old life and there it was in front of me.
It felt strange, approaching that door from the other side. Thankfully, not The Other Side. Tears flowed. All these people walking back and forth. Such a small part of the hospital and yet so many people, most of whom I had not seen before. Saving lives. Sustaining lives. Deft hands weaving and maintaining the thin thread between this world and the next.
A woman came walking through from where the side rooms are and where I was taken to, when my condition moved from life-threatening to critical. Her face lined with worry. She sank down, the weight of the world on her shoulders as she sat to eat and drink. I hoped that by seeing me in reasonable health, having previously been in ICU, it offered her something positive in relation to whoever she had been visiting with. That fingers crossed, he/she will pull through and make a full recovery.
I was able to look in through the doorway just long enough to see that I had been in Bay 7. There was someone there, where I had been. Tubes, wires, machines all doing their job to keep his body alive. He was covered in all this life-saving apparatus. My heart called out to him on the ether, praying he would be okay. I wondered if he had visitors or was all alone. He appeared to be unconscious so he likely inhabited that chemically-induced half-light and maybe having frightening dreams and hallucinations, as many of us do when we’re in that situation. I hope he too makes a full recovery and goes on to live a long, happy and healthy life.
I met one of the ICU nurses and we spoke for a while. She gave me a telephone number and through that I can come back and meet those who looked after me. It will be so good to see them. Already, some of these people have moved on. In just 6 months, some of the Earthly angels who tended to me are likely gone from my life forever.
The NHS loses tens of thousands of staff each year because hours are long and pay is very poor. Don’t get me wrong, these amazing people don’t go into the job for glamour or riches but they deserve a lot more than they are currently receiving, especially when the Prime Minister of the United Kingdom is extremely rich. He doesn’t want to budge over pay because he is unlikely to ever require the services of a public-funded institution for his healthcare. Totally out of touch.
The first thing I was allowed to have in the way of food/drink in ICU was flavoured water. I keep it beside my bed now so first thing in the morning, I drink a bottle of that. The next thing I was allowed, was yoghurt so I have a yoghurt drink soon after. Then I was allowed jelly (jello) and ice cream, so I make sure I have that each day. It’s psychological. Doing this lets me feel I am on the path to healing and recovery and also so I never forget how fortunate I am to be here at all.
So yes, the ICU is always with me.
10 days which changed my life and outlook forever. It was nice to go back yesterday albeit briefly, so that I could see what the outlook was from the window in the corridor, across from my bed and just through the doorway. For some reason, I thought the unit was on the other side of the building. Now that I can map things out in my mind in relation to where ICU is in terms of the hospital building floor plan, it’s bringing me a degree of closure from the trauma of the experience.
I can’t wait to meet the staff who saved me/sustained me. It will be wonderful to see them again. To many, they are likely just ordinary people who pass them by in the street, shopping malls etc but to me, who experienced being cared for by them during my stay in ICU, they are heroes. Selfless heroes.
I love them all, very much indeed.
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